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Could your subconscious mind blocking you from love?

To create your conscious wishes, you need to clear your subconscious blocks. Within our DNA we are carrying all the memories, traumas and beliefs from our past lives, our ancestors’ lives and our soul’s other incarnations.  These memories and beliefs are imprinted and expressed via our DNA today, in this moment, and play a part in the programming of our subconscious mind.

Neuroscientists have shown that the majority of our decisions, actions, emotions and behaviour come from the 95-99% of our brain activity that is beyond our conscious awareness and depends upon the programming and belief systems in our subconscious mind.

Cutting edge molecular biologist and former professor of medicine at Stanford University, Dr Bruce Lipton understands and shares that the subconscious mind cannot move outside its fixed programs and even more, it works without the knowledge or control of the conscious mind!

How can I clear my subconscious programming?

In Theta Healing® the way that we clear our blocks to achieving what we really want in life is with a meditation technique to access our subconscious limiting beliefs, such as ‘love is pain’, and replace them with empowering beliefs such as ‘love is safe’.  Oaths, vows and commitments from past lives can also be cancelled, and as our awareness grows of the limitations that we previously placed on ourselves, and that our ancestors have placed on us too, so does our power to be able to choose what we really want now.

The healing comes from a place of love and not from a place of anger, frustration or resentment because it is understood that our subconscious mind created the beliefs in order to protect us.  Through our experiences we often learn to associate love with sacrifice, love with suffering or love with losing the ones we love; and with all these painful connotations attached the word and feelings of love, it is no wonder that on a subconscious level we are sabotaging meeting our soulmate.

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Finding a soul mate begins with becoming the best version of you.

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Many of us our still energetically tied to past relationships which prevent us from moving forward today. Energetic divorce and cord cutting are two powerful techniques in Theta Healing® which show the universe you are open and available to love today! The Theta Healing® Soul Mates Course and Theta Healing® Growing Your Relationship 1 Course are a great place to start.

Sometimes we punish ourselves or become scared after experiences when love ended up hurting us and we can become confused over what love really is.  This can happen to a child who is being loved and cared for one moment and then told off and punished the next for doing something consider to be wrong. Our subconscious processes and records these experiences and creates beliefs such as ‘love is dangerous’.  These beliefs then run in the background and encourage us to avoid love to stay safe.

To become open to love again commit to clearing limiting beliefs around relationships, sex, marriage and being a spiritual and sexual being at the same time.

And set the intention that clearing these blocks will open you up to the infinite, magical, powerful nature of love.

Here are some common limiting beliefs about soulmates to muscle test for:

  • Love is: pain / hurt / betrayal / sacrifice / shame
  • I will betray my mother/father if I have my soulmate
  • It is impossible to have a career and soulmate
  • It is impossible to have a career and a family
  • It is impossible to have love and money
  • It is impossible to be in love and married
  • Children destroy marriage
  • Marriage is a trapped
  • I have to give up my power to be: married / loved / with a soulmate
  • I have to choose marriage for convenience
  • I have to be celibate to be close to God
  • Sex is a sin / forbidden / unholy / dirty

To learn how to muscle test, watch this video below

The greatest love begins with the one you have with yourself.

Fill yourself up. Nourish and care for yourself. Learn to have healthy boundaries. How to honour and respect yourself. By clearing self limiting beliefs, only then will you attract the highest, best and most compatible soulmate to you.  You are not a half soul, looking for a missing piece. You are already whole and complete. A soul mate just adds to what you already are. Start by becoming the best version of you!

Attracting Your Soul Mate and Creating Lasting Love

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